Legacy in Letters: The Lost Art of Written Correspondence
Do you remember the last time you got a handwritten letter in the mail? For many of us, it's been a while. In our digital age, personal letters have become increasingly rare. While communicating online has great benefits (it’s instantaneous, free, and no stamps or envelopes required), a letter that comes via “snail-mail” has character, feels intentional, and is unmistakably very personal. These pieces of paper folded and unfolded from their envelopes hold more than just words - they can provide a tactile and heartfelt connection from one person to another.
It’s estimated that one in five adults under the age of 45 have never sent a letter. So here are some quick reminders if you don’t know the basics of letter sending… Where does the stamp go? Upper right hand corner. How much postage is needed? For a simple card or letter, usually a single “forever stamp” will do it. The send-to address? Print it clearly in the middle of the envelope. And don’t forget to add your return address in the upper left hand corner. Now you know!
So once you have a family member (or a friend) in mind, what should you write about? First, think about the kind of letter you would be excited to receive. Tell them about a funny story from your day-to-day life or describe a new hobby. Mention specific things they've done that you appreciate, or tell them how they've positively impacted your life. Recall a fun adventure you had together, or mention an inside joke they’ll understand. If they're going through a tough time, offer words of comfort. Ask for their opinion or advice on something! Tell them about a book, movie, or TV show you’ve enjoyed recently. You can even add a drawing, photo, or sticker. Have fun and share something about yourself with them.
The letters you send are pieces of your legacy that you’re sharing with those you care about. Any letters you receive are pieces of legacy that can be cherished. You can digitize the letters you receive, or keep them stored safely as a reminder of the connections you have in your life.
Letters are more than just old papers - they're physical reminders of the connections that exist between us and our family and friends. Next time you're thinking of sending a quick text, why not write a letter instead? You never know what the impact of reaching out to a friend or loved one might mean to them.
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If you haven't taken the time to capture your legacy, or the legacy of an important person in your life, we encourage you to do so now. We at eLegacy can help, visit us at www.eLegacy.net to learn more. Happy storytelling!